Please define what a love map is (look up Gottman's love map to help define the concept and cite your source please). Then answer the following questions in paragraph form (only share what you are comfortable with): 1. Talk about Your Communication Habits Communication is more than just active listening skills. Especially when attempting to manage conflict, there are many factors including how you argue. So, it's important to talk about how you talk to one another. During a calm time, ask your partner how they feel about the way the two of you approach conflict resolution. Does one of you stonewall? Is there criticism even if it's unintentional? Discuss your feelings about this. Having this conversation when you're at peace with one another can help you implement strategies to combat difficult conflict problems. You'll also get to know a bit more about each other (even if these are traits you both need to work on). 2. Discover Your Dreams within Conflict' The passion that comes out of conflict can often be linked back to something deeper than the topic at hand. Think of an argument you had recently. Ask your partner more about what they really wanted and why. Share your own perspective about what issues or hopes underlined your position. Dr. Gottman believes there are dreams within conflict. Talking about those dreams helps you understand what motivates each of you in this area of conflict and draws you closer to each other. 3. Don't Forget Play Time Ask your partner what they like to do for fun. You think you might already know, but hobbies and interests change over time. Keep up with your partner's idea of a good time and make plans to engage in play together regularly. You'll get a nice break from the day-to-day responsibilities and remember what it's like to enjoy each other again.