Verify C My LAPU https://course.lapu.edu/mod/forum/view.php?id=1373880 Discussion 3 | The 4 Horseme x RBT Assessment - sayansola5 × Inbox (2,207) - sayansola20@ X 3 LOS ANGELES PACIFIC UNIVERSITY Home Dashboard My courses Helps APU Library Tech Support Q 5 Re: Discussion 3 | The 4 Horsemen of the Apocalypse by Marlene Martinez - Tuesday, March 19, 2024, 2:08 PM !!! [+] ? Hello everyone, -Identify the 4 Horsemen conflict style that you struggle with avoiding the most: criticism, contempt, defensiveness, or stonewalling. The conflict style I struggle with the most is defensiveness, not in the victim role but in the role where I have to win the argument. I tend to get upset easily if I feel like I am being attacked. I know the loudest doesn't win the argument but in those moments for some reason if I am the loud one I am the one in the right, if that makes any sense. -How has the use of this communication style impacted your conversations and/or your relationship? Activities Assignments Forums Learning Extras Resources 62° Q Search a 0 + 5:46 PM 3/19/2024 PRE Verify C My LAPU Discussion 3 | The 4 Horseme X RBT Assessment - sayansola5 × Inbox (2,207) - sayansola20@ X https://course.lapu.edu/mod/forum/view.php?id=1373880 3 LOS ANGELES PACIFIC UNIVERSITY Home Dashboard My courses Helps APU Library Tech Support 5 a !!! [+] ? This communication style has impacted my relationships by affecting our communication. When I start to get defensive I do not listen to understand I am in my head thinking of a comeback. Then my husband starts to feel unheard so he starts trying to get his point across next thing I know something small turned into a big yelling match. I notice I tend to get the most defensive when it comes to our kids. For example, my husband had called me and told me to make sure our older son put the batteries of the lawn mower to charge before he was able to go out, I said yeah I will make sure he does. Well, the next morning came and my husband had gotten up early to mow the lawn, the batteries were not charged, and my son wasn't home I had permitted him to sleep over at his friend's house. My husband came in upset and asked me what happened, instead of taking responsibility I said well you where in the garage last night why didn't yu check. It just escalated from there because he feels | babysat the kids a lot. Activities Assignments Forums Learning Extras Resources 62° Q Search Х a 0 + 5:46 PM 3/19/2024 PRE Verify C My LAPU Discussion 3 | The 4 Horseme x RBT Assessment - sayansola5 × Inbox (2,207) - sayansola20@ X https://course.lapu.edu/mod/forum/view.php?id=1373880 3 LOS ANGELES PACIFIC UNIVERSITY Home Dashboard My courses Helps APU Library Tech Support Q 5 !!! [+] -What antidote (see associated resource) do you suggest for yourself? Create a practical strategy to add the antidote to your communication. The antidote is to take resposibility, I feel that I do need to accept what is true. I do baby my kids and my oldest is about to be 18 so I am not doing him any favors by covering for him. I feel this will make my husband feel heard around the house. Not getting defensive as soon as he ask a question and letting help talk can help our communication, this could give us a better understanding of each others perspective. Activities Assignments Forums Learning Extras Resources https://course.lapu.edu/mod/url/view.php?id=1373947 ? 408 words 62° Q Search Permalink Show parent Reply a 0 + 5:46 PM 3/19/2024 PRE/nNeed to Answer the Question In 150 Words

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